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Fears
Jun 18, 2005 11:15:28 GMT -5
Post by Kariah on Jun 18, 2005 11:15:28 GMT -5
Ah but you see Joe no one can, you can't and niether can claire because people change as time goes on, and no one can predict the future to that degree, only through belif can you obtain this position where your sure. I have that belif. You will never understand until you yourself have felt and experianced it.
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Fears
Jun 18, 2005 17:45:20 GMT -5
Post by SS on Jun 18, 2005 17:45:20 GMT -5
How dare you lecture me on these things when you yourself have done something to the complete opposite? You say you have this belief, yet you got rid of Andy. Me and Claire are in our relationships and we are completely and utterly happy with them. Don't you dare insult my relationship or Claire's relationship. You have no idea how dedicated we are to our partners. You have such a nerve. Also, you should learn to spell.
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Fears
Jun 19, 2005 15:35:57 GMT -5
Post by Kariah on Jun 19, 2005 15:35:57 GMT -5
You lecture me yet your are still new to the dating game, I 'got rid' of Andy because I would not lie to him him the rest of my life to say that I loved him when I loved another more.
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Fears
Jun 19, 2005 15:43:35 GMT -5
Post by StockholmSyndrome on Jun 19, 2005 15:43:35 GMT -5
Listen, I don't want to argue about this. I don't need experience to have a good relationship, and you imply that I'm going to dump my girlfriend for somebody else. I have never loved anybody or anything as much as I love Laura, and my relationship is the sole thing that keeps me going. I don't want to find anybody else, and I refuse to.
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Fears
Jun 19, 2005 15:51:17 GMT -5
Post by Kariah on Jun 19, 2005 15:51:17 GMT -5
I don't imply that you will split up, I mean it could be one of those relationships which are first time wonders, I wish it is because the first break up is always the worst.
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Fears
Jun 24, 2005 18:58:11 GMT -5
Post by Sidious on Jun 24, 2005 18:58:11 GMT -5
Fears. Most fears are actually irrational. For example.
At the start of this year I was afraid id loose my father, giving it rational thought I will loose my father, its inevitable unless fate kills me off first then that I will, if i loose him to his cancer sooner or later, i still will always have the wonderful years he gave me as a father. And that fear, drew me into myself far too much.
Loosing the one I hold in my arms, once again, fate could strike her from me at any time, but if I live in fear of that each day, I will never give her my whole, everything I need to and want to, to see her smile. And if I loose her to other events, then it was never meant to be.
Life life, the only thing you should be afraid is you. Only you inside you have the ability to break, shatter, hurt loose or damage something you have or feel. Be true to yourself, and dont deny yourself what you feel.
Im only afraid of loosing myself. "trying to find myself, but myself keeps slipping away". I was lost and afraid and found my way somewhere new. Now Im afraid of nothing when it comes to my heart. Ive seen what it does and gives to me at its best and worst, In time you will all learn this and will be better ppl for it, Education doesnt finish once school/college ends, Life's a acadamey,. of pain, pleasure, lust, deceit, love, destinies.
All of you have many souls your destinied to be intertwined with out there to find, some will stay with you for months, years, or eternity. The only thing you should be afraid of is denying those connections, Like i once was.
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